Aesthetic Realism & Our Lives

Ann Richards & Christopher Balchin

 

    The Oneness of Achievement & Humility in She Loves You, by The Beatles

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NB: If you know the song you'll be able to visualise the examples -- but I suggest listening to the original recording as you read my paper, so you can see what is going on in it technically.

I am very proud to have given this paper in public presentations at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, the first time as part of a holiday celebration of the Opposites in Music Class, taught by Barbara Allen, Anne Fielding, and Edward Green. 

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In 1963, this song from England went to number one on the American charts: 

           [PLAY FIRST CHORUS THROUGH FIRST VERSE]

I think this is beautiful!  And I love Aesthetic Realism for teaching the grand criterion for what makes any music beautiful--including this song--She Loves You, by John Lennon and Paul McCartney of the Beatles.  That criterion is this principle by Mr. Siegel: "All beauty is a making one of opposites, and the making one of opposites is what we are going after in ourselves." 

I'll speak tonight about three pairs of opposites I see as central in what makes this song one of the greatest of Rock and Roll: wildness and order, achievement and humility, pain and pleasure.  And these are opposites every person in this audience and everywhere in the world are in the midst of right now, and desperate to make sense of.

                              

1. We Begin with Wildness and Order

In a recent semester of the Opposites in Music class, we studied Mr. Siegel's definitive, groundbreaking 1949 lecture, Aesthetic Realism as Beauty: Music.  In it, speaking about various critics on music, he says:

There is this statement by the English 17th-century writer Thomas Fuller about the getting of wildness into order: "Music is nothing else but wild sounds civilized into time and tune."  That has something to do with discipline.  You don't take wildness and change it into tameness: you change it into form. (TRO 1276)

I feel that last sentence describes just what happens in She Loves You--wildness is changed into form.  Listening to the very opening, what do we hear?  Out of silence, Ringo Starr's drums catapult you into the song, and you hear "She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah."  It's a musical kicking up of heels, so propelled--but at the same time, the melody is symmetrical and balanced: three notes up, ["She loves You"] three notes down, [yeah, yeah, yeah!] repeated two more times, ["She loves you yeah, yeah, yeah! She loves you yeah, yeah, yeah!] with an added "yeah," held at the end. The wildness has become form, a form that spreads out and goes into space on that "yeah" which has wide harmony and an added 6th, and feels surprisingly reposeful. 

                  [play opening 8 measures]

Hear how secure, regular this music is with that very definite statement--She Loves You!  But there's a back-beat, and added drumming by Ringo Starr--who is unrestrained and precise in a way I think is great--that holds you back and propels you forward between the surprising chord changes.  I was amazed to find that even as this music sounds so definite, Lennon and McCartney actually start away from the key--on an E minor chord, which has uncertainty.  [hear the minor chord of the opening)  In fact, it's not until the 8 th measure that we actually reach the tonic key--G major.  This opening is terrific oneness of wildness and order--opposites everyone wants to put together.

 

   2. We Can Also Learn about Achievement & Humility in Love

A big danger for a man--one I know intimately--is, when he thinks a woman approves of him, to become conceited and complacent.  If a woman smiled at me, I assumed she was mine--signed, sealed, and delivered!  This song is anything but complacent--the way achievement and humility are in it, is wonderful.  The verse begins "You think you've lost your love.  Well, I saw her yesterday."  The melody to these words runs almost directly up the scale with the word "saw" on F#, the seventh note of the scale--it doesn't quite get to the tonic; there is something still to strive for.  Three more times they sing that F#, before we finally get there--the high G--on the word "She loves you."   But even at this point of achievement, there is a humility, as the music then descends more than an octave to a low e, harmonized in the minor.  And we feel this humility is proudly affirmed as the guitars now play what the voices sang earlier, "Yeah, yeah, yeah." 

            

3.  The Oneness of Pain and Pleasure

In an Aesthetic Realism Lesson Mr. Siegel gave to a Rock musician which we studied in the Opposites in Music Class, he said:

It happens that the words are more listened to in Rock and Roll than they were before, and the way happiness and unhappiness get jumbled, you don't know which is which any more.  Anybody who knows whether he's happy or unhappy, can't listen to this music--the idea is to be in suspense all the time....Pain and pleasure as one is present in all art, only in different ways....And it happens that Rock and Roll has made pain into an announcement. 

The words of this song are about a painful situation--a man and  woman who cared for each other have quarreled and separated.  The man's friend is critical of him, saying: "You know it's up to you.  I think it's only fair.  Pride can hurt you too, Apologise to her."  Then, after this criticism, pain changes to happiness and the song bursts out with the exhilarating "Because she loves you!"

                      [Play middle verse]

There is regret in this song.  And the way Aesthetic Realism sees this subject is new and beautiful.  Mr. Siegel defined regret as "pain as to the past, or from seeing the past," and he wrote:

We may be ashamed of what we have done, but we are proud that we can be ashamed.  Regret is the association of incomplete­ness or ugliness or disproportion of self, with pain; so that the incompleteness may be justly and usefully attacked.

As a husband I am so grateful to have learned about this in Aesthetic Realism consultations and now in classes taught by Ellen Reiss, the Class Chairman of Aesthetic Realism.  Being the only grandson carrying the Balchin name, and then attending Oxford, I had a very overblown notion of myself--and felt my biting remarks and clever quips were charming.  And I was hurt when my wife, Ann Richards, did not see it this way, and in fact, criticized me for being insultingly high-handed.  When I spoke about this in a consultation, I was surprised when my consultants asked me: "Do you think you're an instance of male superiority and lack of desire to know?"  After a moment, I said with pleasure and relief: "Yes, I think I am!"  They said: "Mr. Balchin, you can get to some of your biggest emotions through being honest about your regrets, because you can really feel you're seeing things differently."  I came to see it's both a privilege and a good time to be a critic of myself; and what I've learned is making for so much greater feeling for my wife, whom I love very much, and such happiness!

   The song "She Loves You," affirms what Aesthetic Realism shows, and how much these four young men needed to know this in their own lives!  They sing, "You know you should be glad!" and show such pleasure, with those "Yeah's," and "Ooh's," and gorgeous vocal harmony.  That surprising high "Ooh" [CB sings] puts together achievement and humility, pleasure and pain, wildness and order!

   I thank Aesthetic Realism for enabling me to see why this song made the world look good to me in the village of Westwell England in 1963 and later, and why listening to it, my sister and I stopped arguing, and my whole family was at peace for the while.  I want the people of Westwell, of London, of Liverpool, England and people everywhere to know and study Aesthetic Realism.     In his great poem, Hymn to Jazz and the Like, Eli Siegel wrote, about jazz:

The Beatles have used you somewhat to show that the whisper of one person can shout across land and water.

Rock and Roll, you say something of geology and man's uncertainty.

 

[Play the entire song] 

                                  

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Here are further links about how Aesthetic Realism sees the arts & sciences, urgent cultural and economic matters, ethics, and the life questions of every person:

Anthropologist and author Dr. Arnold Perey tells of his field research in New Guinea and the classes he teaches today--and much more--at Aesthetic Realism: A New Perspective for Anthropology

For teachers, parents, and others, here are links that will tell you more about the Aesthetic Realism Teaching Method:

What makes a photograph beautiful? How can a photographer improve his or her work? What does the art of photography have to do with justice to people? Find out at Len Bernstein: Photographic Education Based on the Aesthetic Realism of Eli Siegel

Some of Eli Siegel's books, essays, lectures, and poems can be read at The Aesthetic Realism Online Library  Also, see what critics have said about Aesthetic Realism and Eli Siegel. 

Aesthetic Realism Associate Lynette Abel tells here about classes she attended taught by Eli Siegel, reports on classes conducted by Ellen Reiss, and reprints some of the newspaper articles she has written: Lynette Abel: Aesthetic Realism and Life

What interferes with our expression? Find out at Aesthetic Realism Encourages Self-Expression the website of Miriam Mondlin

Read Ellen Reiss's critical observations about the poetry of Robert Burns (one of our favourite poets). She shows how relevant what Burns was writing about 200 years ago is to what is going on today. His poetry has the terrifically just way of seeing people that is needed by government leaders and every one of us.

Aesthetic Realism explains that in order to really respect any person, whether someone of another culture or your own husband or wife, is to see that person as representing nothing less than the world itself. How can we see a person that way? Look at Eli Siegel's Is Beauty the Making One of Opposites? Ask yourself, does this person have opposites? Do they have every one of these fifteen pairs? (And more besides?) Is he/she trying to make sense of how they have these opposites?

Injustice can certainly be based on race, but it can also be based simply on seeing another person's way of meeting the world as different from one's own, and therefore less valuable. And about this, a person can be monumentally wrong. A classic instance of this in literary history is taken up by Ellen Reiss in relation to the great poet John Keats. And she shows the immediate relevance of this mis-seeing to our own lives and time.

One of our favourite links is to syndicated columnist Alice Bernstein. Her writing against racism has Aesthetic Realism as its basis.

To see what Aesthetic Realism is--and what it is not--see the website devoted to accuracy, honesty, justice--the plain truth!: Countering the Lies.

 

 

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